How to Socialize & Connect with People

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I am introvert person with an extrovert attitude, that’s funny part!! I always used to struggle to connect with new people, it was big deal for me to talk with a stranger, but soon I realized that limiting my circle is not going to help me in long run, I started my job as an administrative assistant and I wanted to reach on top position but if I continue to be introvert and limit my network that would have been difficult.

Connecting new people in my job and outside helped me to build my network and learn new things from each and every one I meet. Over a period of time I understood a fun part of connecting new people and getting inspired by their life stories.

It is not easy to go and talk with someone who is completely stranger but I learned and changed my habits to make new friends.

Great things come to those who are willing to risk rejection and put themselves out there. It’s an empowering mindset to be able to create conversation with potentially anyone. There is always the choice to talk to whom I want to talk to.

Some people opened up to me. Some people stayed shut down. Some of them continued talking about themselves when I put the spotlight on them. Others simply answered my question and left the conversation there.

All of these interactions allowed me to understand how to engage with people. For example, I learned that tone of voice & body language are more important than saying the right thing.

That’s when I learned that it was up to me to be proactive and create my own doors instead of complaining that none were opening for me. It was up to me to create my own opportunities by connecting with people.

Besides feeling more connected, I feel happier knowing that I have the power to talk to whomever I want to. More opportunities arrived by networking with others. It helped to go up the ladder from just and an Admin assistant to a Supervisor and currently leading a great team of 50 people.

Here are some tips I learned about turning strangers in friends.

Greet with Smile and Say Magic world “Hi”

Looks so obvious, but its first barrier to open up, you have to take that first step to start the conversation.

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I noticed that people are welcoming after you break the ice. It’s not something that everyone wants to do because it takes some courage to go up to someone you’ve never met before and start a conversation. However, more people are welcoming than we generally expect. When you encounter someone who isn’t, remember that someone else will be.

Endure Rejection

If they rejects you it’s there loss, don’t be judgmental just smile and let it go and don’t take it personally, if they passed taking up on the opportunity to connect with you that’s good for them

Break the fear and take the First Step

One of the best ways to combat the fear is to practice. Push through the fear and it will start to feel more natural. The fear may never fully subside, but if you continue to battle through it, the momentum you create will be more powerful than the remaining fear. I know it’s difficult but that’s the fun part and once you connect with them you will feel accomplished.

Listening is the Key

If you really want to connect, listen to them rather than just talking, people open up more when you encourage their thoughts and listen to them, they will connect you more easily when use correct body language, smile and encourage them to talk more.

Be Humorous

Laughter makes the conversation fun and joyful. People enjoy talking with others who make them laugh. So get out of your head and don’t take anything too seriously—just have fun with it!

So keep practicing, more you go out and talk to different people more you will learn, it’s all about how genuinely you are taking that effort, after some time it will be just natural, people who know me now they will never say I am Introvert just because I developed that habit.

Pease do comment and let me know what differently you did to connect with a stranger, don’t forget to Like, Comment and Subscribe

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  1. Bhagyashri

    Awesome bro,you did it…
    just want to add a little bit in it..
    we r doing it somewhere same or less for everyone at everywhere but what i feel ,people’s perception is
    Always different which we can never predict n also we never need to react on it which i learnt recently in my practise…
    So with considering this we never need to loose our enthusiasm for doing good for ourself and others…
    Now Some word for you,As u always mentioned…i never
    Feel u r introvert,in fact u are the first person who open up with me with every little things since our childhood…n same from me too my bro
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      Sanket Dange

      Thanks Nitish 🙂 sure that’s the whole purpose of starting a blog and it keeps me motivated as well

  2. Apurva Patidar

    Again a new thing to learn from your new post, I will not say it in general, but about myself, its good to be a good listener to increase a network, more over that acceptance of rejection.. you framed it really well, if somebody is rejecting your approach, in short its their loss, Hats off to you super Sup, feels lucky to be a part of your team.

    Eagerly waiting for next post…

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  3. Mohan Bandgar

    Yes…Sanket sir, whatever you have written is absolutely right and useful to each and every individual.Talking with people brings new opportunities in the journey towards our destiny.
    Our attitude is window to the world if it is full of dust means everything seems negative,In the other hand if it is clear or spotless everything comes positive in the way.Even though we can change difficulties into opportunities.

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  4. Chandrashekhar kale

    Truly said Sanket Sir. I have seen your journey from administrative Assistant to Supervisor. You deserve it. You are extrovert undoubtedly. Keep motivating.

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  5. Udita Mukherjee

    Yet another superb piece! So, well mentioned points and their description. It will surely helo a bit introvert people to boost up their confidence and the best oart was I could connect myself to the post so well. I used to be excessively introvert but with time and the practices you pointed out here, I took a span of one and a half year for a 360° transformation. One must go through the post and try implementing the same to witness a positive change.

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